Encourage your child to become a person of character Let your middle schooler know
the benefits of being honest Your middle schooler may have
been born with certain personality traits, but think of her character as a work in progress. In other words, the kind of person she’ll eventually become is still being shaped.


To develop good character:
• Be a strong role model. Make sure your behavior demonstrates the values you’re promoting.


• Offer gentle reminders. Give your child low-key prompts when she slips up. “I won’t worry about reminding you to finish your homework. I know you’re responsible enough to do it on your own.”


• Expect honesty. If your child breaks a rule and lies about it, enforce two consequences—one for the broken rule and one for the lie.


• Notice positive behavior. When you see your child demonstrating good character, praise her!
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